I shouldn't really be humouring these threads with another post but I will anyway incase you're actually serious.
Firstly, I do not say this to be rude at all, and I know this will seem hugboxy but please check your attitude at the door. The moderation here doesn't have to honor any request to help you if you're rude and insult them. On the contrary they can tell you to buzz off. This isn't a professionally hosted server, they do not accept donations and there's no sub fee so you're literally owed nothing. That said mistakes do happen, the admins and the server software are not perfect, but insulting them is the fasted way to getting ignored. So please PLEASE consider that before making posts and PM's like you've been doing, it just makes you look like an angry kid. :\
I say this as a rule of thumb for anyone reading this, it's just common sense. I don't like the idea of having to word this like a suckup like game forums usually have, but it's just good to get out of the way.
Secondly, the database containing our accounts is rather secure and would require a lot of effort to gain access to, moreso than is worth the time. So the likelyhood of you actually getting hacked is very very small, especially with a community that is less than a hundred on average active at any time. So unless you went out of your way to piss off one of the community's ACTUALLY SKILLED hackers (which there are very very few who arent just packet loggers/trainer and CE users), there's very little chance it's worth a lot of peoples time to get access to your account through those means. This most likely means you downloaded a trainer with the express intent of using it with PSO. So because those things contain all sorts of nasty stuff in them, IF BY CHANCE you're telling the truth that's how your info got stolen. Any other means people use for keylogging would not care about a old ancient game but anything they could sell or abuse for free stuff like credit cards, bank cards, login info to checking accounts etc etc.
By means of common sense though, the only way someone would get your info is if you allowed them with your intent to use a trainer, or you allowed a family member or friend on your PC, and I doubt any of them has interest in PSO so by process of elimination it's more likely you got caught red handed.
But if the moderation really wants to put this to bed they can simply post the connection logs and show which IP's got on around the time of ban.