Ty anime I think i figured out part of the problem for some reason I have 2 anti-virus protection programs on my computer. I had already checked one but didn't realize there was a second.
now when I hit start the game window pops up for a split sec then closes.
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ive installed the installer and tried hitting start but nothing happens.
I am using a windows 10 laptop and ive already messed with resolution to see if it was the problem.
ive also tried installing another servers psobb and a similar issue happened not sure if its bc windows 10 or...