Thread comparing some Discord alternatives: https://mastodon.gamedev.place/@mdiluz/116043145998840217
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By that logic Ephinea is doomed to fail in the end too because, much like Schthack, Ephinea also has the ability to donate and there's no other way a server with donations could go.It's probably not a welcome thing but... Stoat fundamentally has all the same problems discord had, in terms of it's place and structure. It's just "discord but not yet".
If you're unhappy with how discord turned out in the end, with how terrible it is to use now, and how they're trying to sell out their entire userbase for a quick buck now that they're practically universal, know that Stoat is going to go down that exact same road. There's just no other path for that sort of service or software.
Element is great, but there's a lot of gochas that are great for extreme security, but that will absolutely end up ruining some normie's day a year or two in. It's pretty much the same with any Matrix client; Element is just the most feature rich Element client, used as a benchmark and reference for other clients to base off.
Personally, my recommendation, and I'm aware it's very unpopular, is to use XMPP for person to person communication and contact lists, and IRC for group chats. Rely on the clients to support end to end encryption where needed.
It's old, it's not fancy or flashy, and group video and voice calls aren't really a thing, but it's old, reliable, well supported, there's a diverse range of clients and servers to use, and you probably won't have your personal information sold to communists for a penny.
Age verification isn't the real problem. The intent to IPO, and literally sell all their users and all of the users' message history, including now faces and ID to associate with all of that, is.By that logic Ephinea is doomed to fail in the end too because, much like Schthack, Ephinea also has the ability to donate and there's no other way a server with donations could go.
Let's not jump to conclusions and presume to know ahead of time what will happen. I actually think that Stoat has a golden opportunity here and I wouldn't count them out yet just because they're similar in nature to discord. If Stoat can take everything that Discord did right and then leave behind all the bad Discord did, having a similar UI whilst having all the good and none of the bad would be an insanely advantageous thing. You're not going to be able to please everyone, but Stoat isn't out of this yet just because they're following a similar UI model.